Tell the people that found you by browsing the profiles a tiny another word for coke whore bit about you and exactly the kind of sex you like and dislike if you have any.
The chat rooms and forums used to be all free, but now, they seem to have some limitations on which ones you can no strings attached relationship without sex access without paying.
Try that, first, before doing anything else.
AFF is the adult dating site you want to subscribe.
I know he is either gay, just lied or he is straight and rushed through his profile, either way I pass up his profile and he may of been someone I wanted to have sex with.